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🌈 LGBTQIA+ & Identity


The Language of Home: Why Bilingual Therapy Can Feel Different When You Speak Your Native Language
You can speak English every day. You can work in English, text your friends in English, and have no trouble expressing yourself. Then someone speaks to you in your native language, and something can shift. A familiar phrase might bring back a childhood memory. A word might express a feeling more naturally. Or there may simply be a sense of being understood without having to explain as much. Language is more than communication. For many bilingual and multilingual people, it is

Dani Spongé
Sep 305 min read


Why Change in Routine Can Feel So Disruptive for Neurodivergent People
Article Contents Why Routine Matters What Happens When a Routine Changes It's Not About Being "Rigid" Gentle Ways to Navigate Change When Extra Support Can Help Frequently Asked Questions Most people have experienced the frustration of having their plans unexpectedly change. Maybe a meeting was canceled at the last minute. Maybe traffic made you late for work. Maybe your favorite coffee shop closed for the day. It can be inconvenient, but for many neurodivergent people, a sud

Dani Spongé
Aug 194 min read


Accessible Mental Health Care: Why Accessibility Is More Than a Ramp
Article Contents What Does Accessible Mental Health Care Mean? Emotional Safety = Accessible Care Not Every Barrier is Visible What to Ask Before Choosing a Therapist When most people think about accessibility, they picture wheelchair ramps, elevators, or accessible parking spaces. Those features matter, but accessible mental health care goes far beyond physical access. True accessible mental health care means creating an environment where people of all abilities, identities,

Dani Spongé
Jul 223 min read


Gender Identity vs. Sexuality: What's the Difference?
Our clinicians regularly work with individuals who are exploring questions about gender identity, sexuality, and self-expression, and one of the most common things we hear is, "I'm not sure what all these terms mean." Maybe you're questioning your own identity. Maybe someone you love recently came out, and you want to be supportive. Or perhaps you've heard terms like gender identity, sexual orientation, and gender expression used in conversation but aren't quite sure how they

Dani Spongé
Jun 134 min read


Understanding Pronouns: How to Support LGBTQ+ Friends, Family, and Loved Ones
We often hear from people who want to be supportive of a friend, family member, partner, or child that they worry about saying the wrong thing. Others come to us after sharing something deeply personal about their identity and feeling uncertain about how others will respond. Whether someone is disclosing their gender identity, sexual orientation, or preferred pronouns, those conversations can feel vulnerable. And the response they receive can have a lasting impact on their se

Dani Spongé
Jun 114 min read


What Is Intersectionality and Why Does It Matter?
Pride Month is often a celebration of identity, visibility, and belonging. But for many LGBTQIA+ people of color, identity is rarely experienced through a single lens. A person may navigate the world as Black and queer, Latino and transgender, Asian and bisexual, Indigenous and nonbinary, or any number of intersecting identities. These experiences cannot be separated from one another. They shape how people move through their communities, access support, and experience both di

Dani Spongé
Jun 104 min read


Intersectionality and Pride: Supporting LGBTQIA+ BIPOC Communities
Mural celebrating LGBTQIA+ BIPOC pride People who identify as both LGBTQIA+ and BIPOC face very unique challenges and opportunities that are shaped out of their own hands, but by the overlap of race, ethnicity, gender identity, and sexual orientation. Intersectionality is a term coined by Kimberlé Crenshaw to describe how different social identities overlap and create unique modes of discrimination and privilege. For LGBTQIA+ BIPOC individuals, this means navigating both raci

Dani Spongé
Jun 44 min read
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Feeling More Tired Than Usual? Here's Why
Sometimes you are tired because you stayed up too late. Sometimes you are tired because your alarm went off far earlier than you would have preferred. And sometimes you are tired even though you technically got enough sleep. That last one can be particularly frustrating. If you have been wondering, “Why am I so tired?”, there may be more going on than simply needing another cup of coffee. Fatigue can have physical, emotional, behavioral, and environmental causes, and figuring
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Daylight Saving Time Ends Soon — Here's What It Can Do to Your Mental Health
Twice a year, we change the clocks and then spend the next few days asking everyone around us what time it actually is. The fall time change can be particularly noticeable because it changes when daylight appears and disappears. While one hour may not seem like a big deal, your body does not operate entirely according to the clock on your wall. It also has its own internal timing system, known as the circadian rhythm. That internal clock helps regulate sleep and wakefulness a
4 days ago4 min read


Seasonal Affective Disorder vs. the “Fall Blues”: What's the Difference?
There is something about the first genuinely cold morning of fall that can make summer feel very far away. The days get shorter, the weather changes, routines shift, and suddenly...it's dark before dinner. For some people, those changes are simply an adjustment. You might feel a little less energetic or miss the longer days of summer without experiencing a significant change in your overall mental health. For others, the arrival of fall and winter can bring a recurring patter
Oct 154 min read


Mental Health in the Latino Community: Breaking the Stigma Around Therapy
Read this article in Español For some people, the hardest part of starting therapy is not finding a therapist. It is admitting that they want one in the first place. Mental health can be a complicated subject in many families and communities. Cultural expectations around family, strength, privacy, religion, and self-reliance can all influence how someone understands emotional struggles and whether they feel comfortable asking for help. That does not mean every Latino person e
Oct 129 min read


5 Signs You Might Be Experiencing Burnout
Everyone gets tired. Everyone has stressful weeks. Sometimes work is overwhelming, your calendar is packed, and you spend your evening wondering how it is somehow already time to do it all again tomorrow. That does not necessarily mean you are experiencing burnout. Burnout develops differently. The World Health Organization describes burnout as an occupational phenomenon resulting from chronic workplace stress that has not been successfully managed. It involves exhaustion, in
Oct 84 min read


World Mental Health Day: What It Means to Actually Take Care of Your Mind
Every year on October 10, World Mental Health Day gives us a reason to talk about something that tends to get pushed to the side the rest of the year: how we are actually doing. Mental health awareness has come a long way, but knowing that mental health matters and actually taking care of our own mental health are two different things. It is easy to share a post about self-care or tell someone that it is okay to ask for help. It can be considerably harder to admit that we mig
Oct 55 min read


The Language of Home: Why Bilingual Therapy Can Feel Different When You Speak Your Native Language
You can speak English every day. You can work in English, text your friends in English, and have no trouble expressing yourself. Then someone speaks to you in your native language, and something can shift. A familiar phrase might bring back a childhood memory. A word might express a feeling more naturally. Or there may simply be a sense of being understood without having to explain as much. Language is more than communication. For many bilingual and multilingual people, it is
Sep 305 min read


Suicide Warning Signs: What to Look For and How to Help
Talking about suicide can feel extremely frightening. You may worry that bringing it up will make things worse, say the wrong thing, or make someone feel uncomfortable. But if you're concerned about someone, staying silent usually isn't the best approach. Knowing the suicide warning signs can help you recognize when someone may be struggling and give you a starting point for checking in. You don't need to be a mental health professional to notice that something has changed or
Sep 257 min read


The Purpose of Emotions: Yes, Even Uncomfortable Feelings Matter
Sometimes, emotions can be...uncomfortable. Anxiety can make your stomach drop. Anger can leave you feeling tense and restless. Sadness can make even simple things feel exhausting. And sometimes, you may wish you could simply turn certain feelings off. But what if uncomfortable emotions aren't actually the problem? Every emotion serves a purpose. That doesn't mean every emotional reaction is perfectly proportionate to the situation, or that every feeling needs to dictate what
Sep 188 min read


Recovery Isn't Linear, and That's Completely Normal
The truth is that recovery can be messy. You might have a few really good weeks and then suddenly find yourself struggling again. Something you thought you'd moved past may come back up. A stressful event may leave you feeling like you've lost progress. You may even wonder, “Why am I back here again?” But recovery isn't a straight line. Whether you're recovering from substance use, an eating disorder, trauma, depression, anxiety, or another difficult experience, progress can
Sep 168 min read


Anniversary Reactions: Why Certain Dates Can Bring Back Difficult Memories
Certain dates can carry a lot of emotional weight. For many people, September 11 is one of them. Each year, as the anniversary of the 9/11 attacks approaches, people may find themselves experiencing emotions, memories, or physical reactions they weren't expecting. This can be especially true for people who were directly affected by the attacks, lost someone, witnessed the events firsthand, lived in or around New York City or Washington, D.C., or simply remember what it felt l
Sep 117 min read


Should You Talk to Your Child About 9/11? 5 Tips Every Parent Should Read
September can bring a lot of reminders of 9/11. Memorials appear in the news. Schools may discuss the attacks. Children may overhear conversations or encounter videos and images online. And for parents, that can create an uncomfortable question: Should I talk to my child about 9/11, and how much should I tell them? If your child wasn't alive on September 11, 2001, you may wonder whether they need to know about it at all. If they are older, they may already have heard about it
Sep 94 min read
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